I am sitting on a plastic chair in a small, lemon-yellow room. The sunlight fades outside and slowly, darkness falls like a blanket over me and the baby in my arms.
He lifts his head up momentarily, eyelids heavy from the combined exhaustion of spending a night in the street outside the local fire station, and his constant, anxious crying for “mama.” He creeps a tiny hand underneath the bottom of my mask, settling it underneath my chin, and drops his head back onto my chest. His other arm finds its way around my neck, in my hair, and he rubs it between his little fingers and settles into my arms.
I rub his head, rub his back, pat his bottom and rock him gently. We sit, quiet, save for his occasional weak moans and choked murmurs of “mama.” I can’t even begin to process what this little baby must be thinking. At a year and a half old, he is old enough to know his mama. Old enough to look for her in every face that enters his room. Old enough to remember her and want her arms around him for comfort, not those of a stranger. Old enough to be scared and confused and traumatized, not just due to the physical experience of being abandoned and the loss of his familiar caregiver, but by his thoughts and confusion surrounding it all.
I put my hand to his cheek, feel its fullness in my palm, and try to imagine what sort of horrible circumstances or tragedy must have led his mother to abandon this beautiful, sweet, perfect, loving eighteen-month-old boy outside of a fire station several hours away. We pass two afternoons like this before he’s comfortable enough to sit within arm’s reach of a volunteer or nurse and play with another child.
